Never regret anything that made you smile

smile is a curve that sets everything straight...
After 27 years of smiling, laughing, crying, anger, frustration, sharing, caring and lots of other emotions, i have come to realise that the strongest of all emotions is a simple smile !!
i have experienced smiling at random people on the road and the feeling when they return the smile is out of the world, it instantly  lifts your mood two notches  up.
Remember when you saw a baby smile for the first time? exactly, its heavenly!
There are many reasons that made me smile at many points in life but later I discovered that those very reasons made me cry as well and often we relate those memories with the tears they gave and not the happiness they spread. That's not fair right, why regret something or mull over something  that made you SMILE!

It is totally natural to blame the past, get angry over things that didnt turn out our way,all the wrongs we did but isn't  it better to recall the no. of times we smiled through those moments.

if you still feel that smiling is not that great a thing,read on to know why it is

SMILE and your stress dissappears
SMILE and you look younger
SMILE as it increases immunity
SMILE to keep blood pressure in control
SMILE as it's  contagious !!

keep smiling
ME with a big one :)

Mere yaar ki shaadi

Couldn't find anything apt for the news of my best friends wedding !

Hai aaj mere yaar ki shaadi, magar main khush nahin hu
Hai aaj kisi ke pyaar ki shaadi, magar main khush nahin
Maine roka use, toka use, samjhaya bhi
De ke wasta aapni yaari ka manaya bhi
Uske raste ka patthar bana aur kaanta bhi
Phool ban ke uske samne murjhaya bhi
Le kar ke chal diya hai woh bahare isqh dahej me
Hai Gul-e-Gulzar ki shaadi, magar main khush nahi hu
Hai aaj mere yaar ki shaadi, magar main khush nahin
Hai kisi ke pyaar ki shaadi, magar main khush nahin

- source: mere yaar ki shaadi hai (Bollywood movie)

- Happy me

Food is an emotional subject

STATUTORY WARNING: This post is not recommended for those who don't love to eat because it might make you fall in love with food. !!

Chocolates wipe our tears, cakes grace all big occassions, rajma chawal makes us love our mom even more, juices make us feel fit, popcorn adds fun to movies, nimbu pani relieves the hangover.... isnt food a quintessential part of our lives ?? 

For us Indians - Food brings back memories.....read "maa ke haath ka khana".. food Stenghtens bonds....read "bahu ne pehli baar kheer banayi".... food is pride...read "daane daane pe likha hai khaane wala ka naam"...food is what we flaunt. ...read "samose humari sunita ne banaye hain".

Its always said that you should not live to eat but eat to live. however, those who love to eat quality food and a variety of food actually live better.

Whether it's psychological or physiological, it's clear that foods have a powerful effect on our moods. 

So what are you eating today ?

Happily Eating

-Me

And then i was asked what i wished for...

"Whats ur wish" If you were granted one wish, what would you wish for?!!??
considering the listomaniac i am, i mentally started listing down everything i wished for and since i am granted only one wish i had to choose one !! prioritizing the most desired changes, the most loved things is not easy... but then How could I let this one chance go waste.

I wanted to relive my school, revisit my college days, remember how i was when i was 3 yrs old, have a perfect body, have the perfect hair...oh soooo many...
The time was running out... i had to make a choice in the next one minute or i would lose this one chance i had...*panic* *confusion* *anxiety*

And then suddenly theres comfort, theres no confusion, he held my hand and said "you dont have to worry sweetheart, all your wishes will come true"

a day will come when you will see all that you wish for in front of you...... the day when you will only want to know what's next and not what passed by... looking forward to those moments....

awaiting the best day of my life
Me

It just happens....

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Cast:

girl in love

guy in love

others (with opinions)

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"Are you crazy", "this is stupid", "you can't play with your life this way", "this is never the way it should be", "its going too fast", "you are mad", "wow this is true love", "i need to publish your story", "this is like a movie", "do you even know the color he likes, the school he went to, what do you know about him","...1 week, what??".........  - these were other's opinion's. Others who are important. Others who love the two lovers.

You never plan and love someone... love happens...

It was their bollywood moment when they first saw each other, and they saw a happily ever after. They knew they were meant to be together. 

She didnt know whats his favorite color or what was his school's name, He didnt know whats her favorite movie or where she was born...what they definitely knew was they were gonna run away from their own wedding....and grow old together...

Its true - Crazy Lovers always have a Crazy Love Story.

That moment of silence when you know all that you will ever need is right next to you, that one heart beat you skip, that one look that lifts your feet off the ground, that one promise ... that's when love happens. You feel blessed, you feel crazier.... that's when love happens..... It just happens !!

In love & being loved

Me

My cinderella story.....

Its just started.....

Platonic Relationship..... a thesis.....

The ideal platonic relationship is the one with the opposite sex who you would never dream of liking but end up liking. He should be someone you can talk to about pretty much everything - girl stuff - boy stuff - someone you can be yourself with. And you are never judged !!
Basically, you should be able to talk any rubbish in front of your platonic and still be tolerated by him. You are not embarrassed to say or do all the embarrassing things in front of him just because he is a boy or just because he will reject you.
Platonics have a bond thats intelligent, responsible....naahhhh its just the bond... cant be defined... its way too simple to be defined or given a name. You can't call them JUST friends, because calling a friend "just" demeans the whole bond.
Its hereby proved that your platonic is the most important person you will meet in your life.... the one who will shadow you to no end... Its the purest form of love there is and expects nothing....Its the closest we get to being dogs.... A dog expects nothing except to love it. A platonic is the same... someone whos there for life... you wont know when you meet him but once you realize this, there is no turning back.... Hold on to the platonic...
I have found mine !!


--- Me